Retirement is a Misnomer; My Purpose Hasn’t Changed
It’s been two years since I retired from my full time position with Arizona Theatre Company, and the main thing I miss is the writing. So I’ve decided to take my daughter’s advice and start blogging. Even if no one reads my blogs, I will enjoy writing them. So “I’m back in the saddle.”
Why is the word “retirement” a misnomer? At least, for me? Some people die — literally — of boredom, once they retire. They feel purposeless and don’t know how to fill their days. They get depressed. They give up on their new-found freedom.
Not me. I haven’t looked back. This is time I never had when I was working, time to do things purely for pleasure and in the process, be inspired every day by the interesting people I share the planet with. It is “indescribably delicious,” as the Mounds wrapper says. And I feel lucky.
What things am I talking about? Well, I will tell you in upcoming blogs. But for now, let’s just say I’m having more fun than anyone deserves to have! And I think it’s because, like the Japanese, I have an ikigai (pronounced like “icky guy”), a reason to wake up in the morning. The reason may change from day to day, but it’s nearly always there.
And in the next blog, I’ll tell you about it.
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Wonderful Pauline! I always enjoy your writing on your Facebook posts. This is an added treat!
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Thanks, my friend!
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Good for you, Pauline. Many will relate to your blog and hopefully many will be inspired to find their own ikigai . At 72, I have not retired but I have thought about it lately – never before though. Timing is everything and though I have never had a plan, I am percolating one. 😉
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Well, what a coincidence, Barbara! Good luck with your percolating!
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Lovely, mom. I’ll look forward to reading it and keeping up with you! Xoxo
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Thank you, Sweetie.
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Thanks so much, Sweetie! That’s quite a compliment, given the limited spare time you have! xoxo
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thanks for the encouragement, Sweetie. Can you tell I’m still figuring out this platform?
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Just posted on Twitter! I’m excited for you to share your beautiful writing, Mom. And your blog will be something our boys can enjoy when they are older and want to know more about their Nonnie. ❤
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How thoughtful! Thanks so much, Sweetie.
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So sweet!
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Well done Pauline. With your experience, interests and curiosity, I’ll look forward to reading your monthly blogs. Only change is permanent!
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Thank you, Myra. They are going to be weekly, but if you read one a month, I’ll be thrilled! xo
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I know am going to love reading this. You remain wonderful and wise. I look forward to your musings.
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Thank you, dear Linda!
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Pauline, thank you for sharing. You deserve all the love and fun you get to have.
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Life changes every single day. Every morning is a new beginning with the opportunity to find something to be grateful for.
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Yay Pauline!
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Pauline, I loved it. Your words really spoke to me as I retired just over a year ago after a 33 year career in CountY government. I also have an Ikigai and time to do what I enjoy. Blessings to you in your new endeavor. ❤️
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Thanks so much, Edrie. Isn’t life grand?
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Let me know if you get two replies. This is new to me, and I’m not sure what I’m doing. At any rate, thank you! And all the best to you in your retirement. Isn’t it lovely?!
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Hi Edrie! I’m still not used to this platform and I’m not sure I ever replied to this lovely message. Thank you for the good wishes! Hope all is well.
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